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This could well be the most important part of this article
because it’s about putting it all together and hopefully my personal experience
with anxiety will give you a better understanding of how to do it and how the
brain works.
Summary of previous parts of this article: Whenever you notice (observe) your
body activating, your subconscious is telling you that there is something or
someone from which you need to run—the fight/flight of the General Adaptation
Syndrome (GAS). Of course if you look 360 degrees (all around you), you will not
find anything or anyone that is threatening your life physically. But, remember,
that the GAS will activate any time your financial, social, or family status is
threatened or if your ego (how you identify yourself) is threatened. For
instance, you bought a Chevrolet, drive it, and like it. You’re at a party and
someone says, “Chevy’s are ugly cars.” Now if you own a Ford, you would feel
nothing, but because you own a Chevrolet, if would normal for you to sense a bit
of defensiveness and even anger. This is your subconscious preparing you to
fight or run from the person who offended you. Yet, to punch this person in the
nose is inappropriate--even silly--and to run away from the person is likewise
silly, but that’s exactly what your subconscious is preparing you to do.
So when you observe activation it simply to notice that your intelligence is
preparing you to run or fight—in your case (because of your responsible
personality) run away. For you there are four basic reasons this happens:
1. You just ate within the last 20 minutes-to-an hour or so a high refined
carbohydrate portion of food or drank a drink with caffeine or alcohol.
2. You just experienced a disappointment—something didn’t work out as planed or
desired—bad news—some plan fell through.
3. Something reminded you of one of your disappointments—it could have been a
thought, a reminder, a dream, or something someone said.
4. Conditioning: Because this has happened many times before without your
ability to understand the reasoning you’ve associated the feelings with other
stimuli. For instance, Pavlov’s famous conditioning of the dog to salivate.
Pavlov rang a bell whenever he gave the dog food. After several repetitions he
then only rang the bell and the dog salivated without the presence of food.
Likewise certain stimuli or for that matter even thoughts can cause activation.
A confession: A year or so ago I had taken some medication that contributed to
shortness of breadth and muscle tension—I experienced classical anxiety without
any known reason. What I did to deal with it:
1. Acknowledged my disappointment (I get them too) and noticed there were some
things from which I’d just like to run.
2. Took a quick look at my diet—it was right on track—no carbohydrates that
could be causing the problem.
3. Took a look at the medication I had been taking for about six months. I
remembered that over the course of the last several months I noticed muscle
tension in various parts of my body and learned it was a side effect of the meds
as well as possible anxiety.
4. I had my doctor change my medication.
Now, you’d think that because I changed medication, that the anxiety would
disappear, but it didn’t just go away. It got to the point I even postponed my
dental visit for a cleaning because I didn’t want to deal with having the
feelings during the middle of my visit. This would be particularly embarrassing
for me since I specialize in working with anxiety and panic attack.
What I noticed is that whenever I drove, I’d begin noticing the tension. Even
sitting in my recliner at home I noticed tension. It got to the point where
whenever I thought of it happening, it happened—no disappointments present other
than being disappointed with the tension happening.
It even seemed like when I’d noticed I was free of it for a few hours I’d think
to myself, “I wonder if it’s gone and I’d try to remember what it felt like to
have it and sure enough, the feelings would return. I was amazed at my need to
test myself to see if I could control it and get rid of the feelings
consciously. Of course I couldn’t control it.
What I did to get beyond it was:
A month later it all came to pass. Yes, I can remember I
had the problem and forget what it felt like to have had it. And, although a
rarity now, whenever I remember I had the issue I think, “can I cause it to
happen and prove to myself I can get rid of it;” before the thought is even
finished, my brain says, “too much trouble to demonstrate—forget it,” and I go
on with life.
Homework: Focus on the six steps given above. If you have difficulty email me at
knic@comcast.net with anxiety problem as the subject or go to
http://www.dstressdoc.com/counseling.htm to read more about the counseling I
do and how you can get the first 15 minutes free. You can also go to
http://www.panicbusters.com/80%25%20Success%20Rate.htm to read the about the
study I conducted regarding the clients I worked with that demonstrated 80%
success. Many of these clients only had one session.
Regardless of what you've been told, using a revolutionary technique, anxiety
panic attack is only a disease of ignorance and can be gotten rid of through
understanding of a few basic concepts!
end of article--
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